At times, I wonder why people cannot be themselves?
Take for example...
When a guy and girl like each other, they date, talk and mostly avoid conflicts. It's quite obvious why they avoid conflicts. They like the person so much, that they want to please them in all ways.
I beg to differ on that part....
Everyone has their own set of likes and dislikes. Just be true to yourself. If being truthful, chases the person away. Then it's not meant to be!
And we all know about the deadly honeymoon period! For some three months and for some only a month. I don't really know how accurate this is. Based on my past experience - three months is sufficient for the person's true character to be visible. Although, I could be wrong.
Once that period is over, people change! Why? What's wrong in being yourself from the beginning! Nobody's going to judge you! Correction, I meant I won't judge. I can't speak for the rest of the world.
Trust plays an important part in getting to know each other. I am a person who trusts and loves with all her heart! Whether that's good or bad - it doesn't matter to me. What matters is I give without expecting anything in return - regardless of whether the person stays or goes. To me everyone I meet is unique in their own ways and I love them for who they are. I warm up to them quite quickly as I have the ability to sense if they are easy or just a pain in the butt!!
My conclusion keep things simple and simple is what life will be!
Love with no expectations..have no limits nor ego...give with all your heart but don't lose your soul along the way. Are you afraid to get your heart broken? Isn't life about taking risks? How will you know if it's meant to be if you don't try.
Now sit back and have faith on what the universe has in store for you. Believe me, to not know the unknown is a beautiful feeling.
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