Friday, 12 August 2016

Ava

A chirpy young girl who lived life freely, finding joy with every person she met. Being the first born in her family, she showed great affection and love to her parents and seven siblings. Not once did she leave their side when they were in need.

Ava in the middle holding a bouquet

Marriage was in her cards at a young age - that bestowed her with two beautiful children. She worked hard for her money to give them a beautiful life. Now and then, she faced health issues, but that did not deter her from living life with much zest.

When life took away her precious daughter, she picked herself up and lived for her son. Her son was her blessing, her beautiful daughter-in-law and four loving grandkids were her bonus...her life was once again complete!

The best part of her, were the stories she told...stories of her many adventures growing up. Not only was she a good story-teller, she was a fabulous cook. Noh Hiang, a nonya delicacy was something she introduced to her family. It went on to became her signature dish for Deepavali year after year.


In her final days, moving around freely became a challenge. Even then, she continued to show the same bravery till the day came for her to say goodbye. Before she left, she took a promise from me...A promise to be a loving aunt to her grandkids.

Today, I honor Puvanum (Ava) - my beautiful aunt,who was also my mother. My pillar of strength in my growing years. We shared many happy memories together and losing her was my greatest loss.

9 years have passed and I still think about her....about all the good times we shared.

My grandma, Ava, Kasturi, Yakshini, Saranya, Avaneesh and our neighbour's child

All that she has done, groomed me to be the Aunt I am to my beautiful nieces and nephews. Today, if I'm a big fuzzy ball of love, she was one of the reasons for it and I love her for that!! 

Disclaimer - There are many others who have contributed to me being this way...but that's a story to share for another time...so don't get upset people!!

My beautiful angels!!
Saku(Saranya) my baby!!
Kas(Kasturi) - my biggest monster!!
Just the four of us!!




Avi (Avaneesh) ..only rose among the thorns!
Bubu Darling (Yakshini)


















To love and be loved is a beautiful feeling. Hold on to your loved ones tight, drown them with love, big bear hugs, sloppy kisses and mushy sweet nothings. They may act as if they despise it, but deep down...they look forward to when you will do it again!! ;)

Cheers to a beautiful day! 

I was tricked into taking this ride!!


Sunday, 17 January 2016

My Happiest Moments


It's been awhile since I last came in here to write - has to be my lack of inspiration. Having said that, I gained my mojo back through my 3 weeks break in Sydney. 

What a great way to celebrate Christmas and to usher the New Year in...
It only means more travels up ahead for me...

And so..the first week was all about family. 

We are a Normal Family ;)
 
Baywatch babes ;)
My BFFs!!!
Discussing when to jump again
Dinner @ Aperitivo
Aunt Lyndal's 54th birthday bash
Wefie@ Jenolan Caves
Dinner @ Epping Hotel

Meaning all we ever did was eat good food.
Let's not forget the beers...oh man! 
I'm glad to be going clean till my half marathon.


What I loved about my trip? 
Having my down-time to discover what Sydney has to show me. 

Taken during my Coogee beach walk

Manly Beach
Personalized Salt water pool


Back to childhood@Harbourside

Such pretty flowers
Tomatoes!! Could not resist a photo..sorry pagal ;)

As for the Weather - it was all over the place. Cold..Hot...Wet then hot again.
Mother Nature must be throwing one of her fits! 
Wonder who has made her mad this time ;)
Her tantrums didn't deter me of course. 
In fact, I loved everything about her unpredictability....it was invigorating :)

Wet day!

Best part of my holiday?? Discovering and trying things out on my own...
Everyday was an adventure - 
places I went...
people I met... 
bus or train routes I took... 
falling off my surf board...
getting lost and finding my way back.. 
trying to jump on the trampoline without freaking out ;)... I was having a ball!

And every other day :)

It was one pleasant surprise after the other; each unraveling itself before me- allowing me to take my time and enjoy every moment. Though, it was tough leaving everyone when it was time to go.  I told myself I will be back! 

When? It could happen anytime. Lots of possibilities in that one thought alone...That itself is a lovely feeling :)

So have I made resolutions for 2016? Not at all! ;)

              Idea is to go with the flow and enjoy every waking moment of it...
                    
                                                     Ciao :)


























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